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| (albert hurlburt jr with his son,pointing gun at pic taker,shows example of the life style and what a bad role model he was) |
over the years he has committed crimes,and ran,he has boasted about how he is basically invincible,and untouchable,and thats only because the law was never able to catch him before statue of limitations ran out.
and because he always made threats, the women involved were afraid to come forward. he has always prayed on the weak,and people who had no one to turn to,and if they did he made sure it wasnt for long. he tortured woman,and his son physically,mentally,and verbally. he kept his son out of school most of the time,and ran him from one state to another,his son was not allowed to stay in any one place while growing up,and was not allowed to be around other family or have friends, and it ruined his life.when his son had girlfriends in the past albert would always interfere and cause it to end,and when his son finally had children,albert took them too,and now lives with the childrens mom and the kids.he is a very selfish,and a manipulative person,and lies to the point that he believes his own lies.i feel sorry for anyone who gets caught up in his web of lies,and his constant paranoia and all his cosperacy theories "that everyone is out to get you or cause harm"
although he always puts on the front that he has never done anything wrong,and that it was everyone elses fault,i believe and seen differently. that is just part of the game he plays,and people who confide in him will regret it because the instant the person doesn't agree with him or as he would say "your going against me", he always uses,and twists everything said,against them to fit his own,then creates an argument.
unfortunately all the past crimes,and abuse committed,others have suffered and paid the price for,so i guess he just gets away with it.
i too was once a victim,but eventually i was able to get away,but not without emotional damage and tremendous loss.i write this in hopes that if anyone knows this person or is in a similar situation,my advice is to try to get away from the situation and dont be fooled by these type of people,and believe in yourself.and believe me its easier said than done,but i did it,and it took time.
from my experience,albert hurlburt takes from others,wether it be there lives,their children,and even their ideas,and then makes them all his. i remember days of extreme badgering,constant threats to me and towards my family, i felt trapped and stayed away for a while just to protect them.i am glad to finally be back with my family.and i dont take anything for granted anymore.the abuser/attacker can take everything away before even realizing what has happened.i am very lucky to be alive,as well as his son,who is also on the road to recovery,it will take time,and he may never completely heal,the damage is done,and went on for to long.
albert hurlburt helped put his brother in prison yrs ago for a crime that he didnt commit.i know he didnt do it,albert has boasted and bragged about how he was able to get away with the crime to me personally,although from a legal stand point it may be here say,but i will always know the truth,as will his son considering he had to live it without choice,although people may not understand ,but albert hurlburt brainwashed his son,and others in many ways,and kept him away,and was never allowed to get close to anyone growing up.unfortunately that was his point,so that now as an adult it would sound unbelievable.people judge without knowing the facts,and there are many more,but it would end up the size of a book.it saddens me that alot of people dont want to take the time to understand,or care. some people have said things like "why did you stay" or "you should have or could have done this or that"
but unfortunately its not always that easy. circumstances dont always allow that to happen.
Omg I have been looking for Lee, is this Jackie? This is Charlotte.... Please contact me at mysticrose682000@yahoo.com I know what you went through... Hugs with love and Please tell Lee that I still love him and always will, he is nothing like his Father... He is a beautiful soul.
ReplyDeletethis is the most evil man i have ever met,god help those who are involved with him now..
ReplyDeleteJenny Noto don't be talking about Al Hurlburt, I know him real well and he did none of the things you are trying to make him out to be. He is a long time Friend of mine, I been knowing him for a long time now. He never did any of those things you are saying about him. You lied and had him in court for something he did not do. He proved that you lied about him in court. It is a matter of court record that you lied about Mr. Hurlburt. While you are at it, why don't you tell the truth about you and Albert Quick, how Albert Quick, left his kids down here Houston County Alabama, he abandoned his kids. He left and went to New York State with you Jenny, And never got in touch with his kids.The both of you should be ashamed of yourself. Your father Mr. Hurlburt and Pam Miller took excellent care of the kids. You guys never bothered to get in touch with his kids, The whole time that you been gone. And now you trying to make Mr. Hurlburt look like a bad person, In fact you could not ask for better person like Mr. Hurlburt. That picture you got posted on blogger why don't you tell the truth about where you got it from. You got that picture from Steve Hurlburt. From which he stole it from his brother Mr. Albert Hurlburt. Steve took a whole picture album from his brother that was reported to the police department 35 years ago. The reason he took the picture album he tried to framed his brother Mr. Albert Hurlburt for something he did not do. And Steve Hurlburt, did not succeed, And you Jenny Noto, Albert Quick, and Steve is still trying to framed Mr. Al Hurlburt by telling lies. Also Jenny, you been communicating with Mrs. Pridgen, You told Mrs. Pridgen to take the picture you posted on the internet,
ReplyDeleteabout Mr. Albert Hurlburt, And all the lies you wrote under picture, for her to take a
copy of it off the internet so that Mrs. Pridgen, could make me look bad in the court of law. And Jenny Noto, do you recall calling the sheriff department about Pam Miller and Mr. Albert Hurlbert, And said that they was abusing the kids and when the Sheriff come out there they found no abused at all. Jenny, you made a false statement about Mr. Hurlburt and Pam Miller. Why don't you Jenny Noto, Albert Quick come down to Alabama and this can be settle in the court of law. And purgery is a serious offence. You lied to the DHR on the phone Jenny and Albert Quick, sent down false statements as well, And he is gonna have to prove every word of it. I can't mention all the stuff about you Jenny, But all of it will come out it's just a matter of time about the kind of person you are. Mr. Albert Hurlbert has
plenty of support.
albert hurlburt,or to hwo you had write this,
Deletei am not stooping to this level,but i will say this,when the sherrif came out back then,it was nothing more than a welfare check because pam's family had not seen her or the children for a year,and it made albert quick,the childrens father,and her family worry.he was never contacted with an address or phone # for the children.he didnt abandon his children,in fact he tried very hard to stay in their lfe but he wanted to get away from albert hurlburt.sadly albert hurlburt and pam lived together at albert hurlburt's residence,and that made the situation bad,he wanted nothing to do with him,and his sick twisted ways,nor did he want his children around him,because of the type of person he is.but he felt helpless to the situation. we all pray every day that the person who saw pam before she passed away all beat up,and black and blue comes forward,pam told this person " that she had made the worst mistake of her life" albert hurlburt knows what he has done,and knows why he lost custody of the kids,and now a restraining order to stay away from them.the only thing i can agree with is that you are right about one thing,all will come out in time and he will be judged by god in the end..so i dont worry about meaningless words.we all have a life now,and are working on recovery,and moving on and eventually there will be justice.
thanks for writing,and have a good one :)
First of all Jenny, I have heard of people lies, But you are then Queen of the all!
ReplyDeleteJenny Noto, when the police came out to my house Pam asked them what was they doing there? They told pam (the Sheriff) that you Jenny Noto, Had Call
them about the kids. Jenny you are the one to call the police and you did it just to
cause trouble; Pam did not appreciate it not one bit, and neither did I. Pam mother
even admitted in court that Pam whould not have anything to do with her mother, brother or family because her mother went against Pam for her brother Carl, in court. This is one of the reason why Pam would not have anything to do with her mother or brother and the rest of the family. At the time how could Albert Quick,
could have been with his woman Pam when you by all cause come in between
them and broke up their relationship. And further more you wanted me to say
that I was not your father so that you could marry my son Albert Quick. When
I would not agree to it You Jenny, tried to cause me problems. And you been trying to cause me problems every since.
I bet you never told your kids that I wanted you to go back to your family when
you was living in Alabama. Now as far as pam goes, She was a great woman,
and I loved Pam from the bottom of heart. And she never "said" she did not want
to be with me. And I never did anything to hurt Pam or the children. I love Pam
and the kids more than life it self. Pam never had any bruises while she was with me. You Jenny, left your children in New York, and came down to Alabama, claiming that you was my daughter. And then you started Liking my son which
you know he is your brother. How could you fall in love with your own brother
Jenny Noto, That's disgusting and it make me sick to my stomach. You took Pam
Miller boyfriend away from her, And if that was not enough, You and Albert
Quick, beat Pam up while she was pregnant with her baby Lara Quick, And
Albert Quick, Through Pam out of the house in Midland City, Alabama. This
would have never happen, if you had stayed home with your family like a mother should have. I am gonna tell you one more thing before I close Jenny Noto, Steve let me know what you and him was talking about when you and Albert Quick
lived over on Dean Road. Steve told me about the conversation between him, you Jenny and albert Quick. Jenny If you don't stop telling these lies you are gonna have prove it in the court of law.
albert,
ReplyDeletei was wandering when you were going to start showing your true colors to everyone.
all this proves to me is that you got one over on the social security office, you claim that part of your disability was because you never got an education,and that you can't read or write.you did not deserve that 40,000 back pay you got in 2005,wich by the way you used it to pay off an old warrant from bay county florida,from 1993,then used the rest to foolishly buy cars with,then resell them for less lol not a good buisness man..
you are the last person who should be talking about children,why dont you tell everyone why you left your wife doreen,and two daughters..oh let me guess that will
be doreen's fault too,and your other wife patricia leonard.you beat them and i know your daughter penny would never lie about that,she witnessed you beating her mother doreen,and there is a pic of patricia with a black eye,and you beat my mother too,along with your own son's mother sharon,who is still afraid of you till this
day.and i suppose what you did to mori's family,and charlott's family,and the list goes on,is all lies too? the truth is all these people remember you and what youve done,and all you want to do is play the blame game towards me,all that has happened to you is of your own doing,no one else's.i pray that you get some mental health treatment.
also i will add,apparently i will have to get all the documents together and post
Deletethem on here for all to see,i can prove what i say,can you??
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ReplyDeletealbert, nice language..please do prove it,your the one who has nothing. we have a dna test that proves we are not siblings,you have known that for years. just accept the fact that you have finally been caught onto by your so called community,i say so called because as you said for so long that alabama was behind the times,you have been there just to hide from the law and,because you know your family doesn't want you because of all the bad things you've done to them.plus you arn't sure what is going on with your old warrant in chemung county,are you? why don't you come to ny if you think a court room would humor this..and by the way you want to talk about incest,lets go there about your sister sharon,do you remember that? and the reasons she was institutionalized,plus the fear she has that your going to beat up her husband,i guess if he only knew,and you already know she wont ever tell on you. do you really want me to go there? plus your niece,who you raped,but she died before she could tell on you,and you went on how she deserved to die,you ought to be ashamed of yourself. your son wants to know why you thought you had the right to take over his children,and ex? may she r.i.p. and why you thought it was alright to run him all over the country,and deprive him of a childhood,school,and a social life.plus abuse him and let others abuse him too,and for what.. because you were so guilty and on the run,why did drag him down too? he feels that he would have been better off if he would have been raised by his aunt and uncle,steve & tianna, atleast they cared for and took care of thier children,and they turned out fine. he wishes that steve was his dad..his words.
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ReplyDeleteAlbert HurlbertNovember 23, 2013 at 8:07 PM
Jenny, I talked to penny and she said she don't even associate with you or Steve.
And she never told you no such thing. You see Jenny, you lied about Penny, you
lied about Sharon, and you lied about me saying that I raped my niece. I never
raped no one. And you also lied about I threatened your family, I never threatened your family or anyone family. As far as my back pay goes from social security you and Albert quick got most of it. So you see Jenny you are a professional liar. Al we was once real close you and me, and got along good. It's strange that you would say that you rather have Steve as your father than me, because I always stuck by you through thick and thin. You are the one that left Pam may she r.i.p.
Pam and the kids had to have a place to live when you left. I took good care of
Pam and the kids. Pam wrote in her will that she did not want the kids to be
around her mother are her brother. When Pam was staying over at her mother's house Carl told your son Joe to pack his bags and leave the house when he was 6
years old. He threw him right out of the house. And any person that would do that to a child should not even be around children. Pam could not wait
to get out of the house from her mother and Carl. She moved in with me. Next four
years I took good care of them. So Al if you want to get upset because i took good care of Pam and your kids that's up to you. I feel sorry for you Al that you have been taken in by Jenny and Steve. Because Al, they are definitely using you. And Al, I want you to know that I was not lying to you when I told you the detectives came over to the house when dad was alive, Steve and Billy call the law on you after you left Steve house. If you want to verify this you can always ask the detectives. Al if you need to call me for anything you are welcome to call.
albert,this is really sad how you continue to act as if this is a game,you have single handedly ruined lives of many,and you are going to be 74 in march,apparently growing up is not on your agenda.the proof out weighs your words,so deal with it,and take some responsibility for your actions,and get off your high horse!
ReplyDeleteas far as albert quick,he says now that he is getting treatment,and now knows after all
ReplyDeletethese years that you have lied over and over to him,he knows that you are full of it,and knows he has only been a meal ticket for you,which is why you stole him from his mother,wich you threatened and tortured to the point she couldnt be around him for fear that you would always be around,thats sad.but he knows now that there wasnt a day that went by that she didnt think of him.she told him what you did.so its whatever..
Jenny Noto, you say my sister Sharon, is scared of me. I am not the one she is scared of. the one she is scared of is Steve Hurlburt, because her son Arte said that he is afraid of Steve, because he knows things about Steve that could get Steve in trouble. As far as these people that you say are saying things about me, these people ought to realize that they can be sued and loose everything they got. I am gonna put this in the hands of the court. and as far as Al concern I have papers that prove that he is my son. In your last statement you use lie after lie about me stealing Al from his mother and that I used him as a meal ticket. I"m sorry to disappoint you Jenny I took good care of my son Al, and I have school records back when Al was in school, and I can prove every bit of it. I don't have to prove anything to you his real name is Albert A. Hurlburt III, And then he change his name to Albert Quick, because Florida took his driver license. He change his name illegally. I don't like to cause my son any trouble, but I will take it to the court of law if you keep pushing this matter Jenny. You all are
ReplyDeleteacting like crazy people up there when you should be acting like civilized adults. And I don't know why Al should be getting treatment he was alright until he met you Jenny. I am not gonna keep wasting my time with you over the internet, but if you choose to pursue this matter I will take it to the court of law against you.
Albert,this is rediculous.you have no idea what is going on..all I have to say along with albert quick,is that for one you still lied to him all his life about his name,up until you decided to tell him about his name,you decided that his name was albert hurlburt III,not him.his birth certificate says albert a quick,and so does the original.also the hospital records only lists sharon quick as his mother,and says father unknown.so you go ahead and prove it that your really his father.i bet you cant and do you want to know why? Because a test says that steve hurlburt is his real dad.so albert quick will never talk to you or see you ever,he really hates you for all you ve done to him,his mother,and everyone else. As far as art goes he used steve to help him get his ssi,then art lied to everyone about steve,and that was proven in court. Art is legally retarded,and his mother sharon is insane,even you said that,but all you got to say and reply that I am such a liar..lol people are always liars in your eyes when they tell on you.im sorry the truth hurts. Art has nothing on steve,if anything art is the one who actually broke the law,and lost his kids,that is no ones fault but his own.all steve did was help art,and art didnt apreciate it.so you can keep saying how I am a liar all you want,but its not going to matter.you are a legend in your own mind..lol So have fun trying to take me to court lol
ReplyDeletealso by the way,i see you deleted some of your comments,because it will make you look bad..
ReplyDeleteStatement to the Courts in Reference to Guardianship of
ReplyDeleteJoel Lee Quick and Lara Alena Quick
File June 27 2013
To your Honor or Whomever this May Concern:
I have filled out and notarized a copy of a Conditional Guardianship or minor
Children, and have named Albert Hurlburt JR as guardian. I would like to explain
my resons for doing so and why my children, Joel and Lara Quick, should not be
place with their father or their grandmother.
Mr. Hurlburt has been with my children since they where born. He visited them
frequently when I lived separately from him. Since the children and I have moved
in, things have gotten better. Joel, who was diagnosed ADHD, is no longer on
medication and is doing fairly well in school. Lara is getting brighter every day and is ready to begin school this fall. Al has taken full interest in the lives of my children
how much their "Pepaw" loves them and how much they love him. They are
inseparable.
The children's father, Albert Quick, has shown no interest in the children since
before Joel graduated kindergarten, which was the end of May 2008. He has
not called on their birthday, or Christmas; he has had no contact at all with them.
He doesn't know what the children like to do or what they will and not eat; simple
things, I know, but very important things. Sometime in 2010 Albert moved away
from Alabama and did not say where he was going. Sometime in 2010 Albert
moved away from Alabama and did not say where he was going. Albert has a
big problem with alcohol; he drank almost nightly when he was here in Alabama,
and I don't think that has changed. Albert also has a girlfriend by the name of
Jenny Noto. My daughter is very afraid of this woman. She also offered to poison
me to Albert and his father in 2004. I believe that Jenny has been giving Albert
some of her medications, such as klonipin. This was going on here in Alabama
also, and it made Albert very unstable along with the alcohol.
My mother, Signora Diane Pridgen, is not fit to be guardian of my children either.
I know this simply from experience. Growing up with my mother was a hard thing
to live through. She married a man who beat her and us children, but also molested
me. She stayed in this relationship until I was about eight years old. Then we went
to live with my grandmother. While living there, my mother met another man and left
my sister and me with my grandmother, stating that she could not handle children
anymore. My step grandfather began molesting me around the time I was nine. When I turn thirteen, I started saying no and fought back.
My sister and I were taken to a foster home, and my family turned their back
on me. My own grandmother did not believe me, and we were estranged for
many years, until after her husband died. During all this time I was on my own
in the world.
Whenever I did see my mother, it was all about partying. Going out and getting
drunk, then crying over the past. It had remained so until recently when I quit
going out. She continued to go out and drink and stay out until daylight,
sometimes not coming home until the afternoon.
When I was able to work I asked my mother to watch my children for me.
There were more than one occasions when the neighbors told me that Lara
had shown up at their front door wanting to play, and when they took her back
home, my mother was asleep.
My mother told my children that they had to eat at a certain time and had to eat
certain foods, no flexibility. My son went to bed many nights hungry because of the
food he was being force to eat. I felt out of control because it was her home, and she could have kicked me and the kids out. At that time, I had nowhere else to go.
It's as simple as this: next to myself, no one knows my children better than Albert
Hurlburt. He's been there through every sickness, every childhood victory. He is
the father to them that their own natural father would not be. That is why I want
the children to remain with him if I am incapacitated.
By Pamila D. Miller
Jenny Noto,
ReplyDeleteyou are lying again, you started all these allegations right from the start, and that's why I lost my grand kids it's far from being over with and before this is over with you'll have to prove the allegations about me. and I can prove your allegations is no good. Do you remember down here in Alabama you lied about me in court and I proved that you where a liar in front of the judge. And anyone that would believe you should have check your back ground and your credibility. And if they had checked, your word would have been no good. hear say is not relevant in the court of law. And also Albert Hurlbert lll, alias Albert Quick, his word is no good.
And also Steve Hurlburt he also is a known felon. Also Albert Quick got a police record in Maryland. You three people up their in Elmira New York, you put the lies on the internet about me to help Diane Pridgen, to get my grand kids away from me. and that was down right dirty of you, them kids was happy with me. It's plain and simple you all had a conspiracy against me. and as far as you saying about Pam death being suspicious, you better read her death certificate. Before you start running your mouth about me. Since you associate with Diane Pridgen, on the phone, and you had been from the start, you would have no problem seeing what's on the death certificate. And it does surprise me that Diane Pridgen would have anything to do with you after you tried to poison her daughter Pam. And her mother knew this because Pam told her. And you Jenny, Steve and Albert Quick, had a conspiracy going on while you where down in Alabama on dean road, over the phone between you and Steve, and I can prove it. Every word that you and Steve have ever said I got it. And also while you was programing Al and giving him klonipin alone with the alcohol he was drinking, no wonder he wasn't able to see his kids, when I tried to bring them over so he can see them. and every time I called you would answer the phone, and you telling me that Al was not feeling good are there would be trouble if I brought the kids over to see him. and he never would get on the phone. I always thought that was strange you would answer the phone for him. Just like the dhr called him in Elmira New York, he would not get on the phone.
They asked for him, but instead you got on the phone and made allegations about me which was false to dhr over the phone. and you know that these allegations was not true that you stated to dhr. So I still say why don't you come on down here and I will prove the liar you are. And Jenny you braded about setting your mother trailer on fire while you lived with her. And also you brag about how you where gonna stab Al with a knife when you and Al lived in Midland City Alabama. And you say Jenny I abused you when were growing up, that never helping because I was never around you when you were growing up. And when you were down here in Alabama you was too busy chasing Al, and trying to brake him and Pam up. I guest you did your time good because you are with him right now, so you see Jenny you never got to know me. So don't say you know me. Steve don't be claiming Al to your son he's my son and don't ever, ever forget it. And don't be picking on my niece Roberta Padgett. She's got more brains then all of you put together. And Jenny, Steve and AL don't be putting no more stuff on the internet about me. I hope and pray you all come on down here and we will settle this in court. If you are so right about ever thing you said about me you should not be afraid to come on down here and settle it in court. And if you keep putting stuff on the internet about me that shows that you are full of it. I plenty of church members that will back me up and I got plenty friends in Elmira also.
Jenny has been discredited time and time again, she is a proven liar so I would not put another thought into anything that she has to say. This fictional blog that she has created is a big fat joke its just too bad she has so much time on her hands and the best solution she could come up with, actually the only solution was to write a pathetic slanderous blog. Your imagination is disturbing to say the least Jenny and I think you could benefit from some professional help, you might also try doing something constructive to keep your twisted simple mind occupied maybe invest in a box of crayons and a coloring book? Draw out your crazy thoughts and show them to.a therapist and perhaps you can get some help with your issues. I will pray for you:)
ReplyDeleteAs for Albert Hurlburt Jr ~ Do not waste your time with hate filled people it is a waste of time and energy all you can do is pray for their sick minds and move on. You have your focus and heart in the right place and that is on your grandkids! and doing right by them they want to be back with you and when the truth comes to light they will be back with you where they belong! Don't give jenny the satisfaction of even taking the time to worry about anything she has said or will say in the future you know the truth and everyone that knows you and loves you knows the truth and God does too and that is all that matters!:)
hi my name is Jamie Parm one of Jenny noto best friends.. Sadie Baby lol nice name for a so called christen woman. Jenny has never been proven to be a liar only in albert hurlburt words. I sat here w them jenny and al as they put their x mas tree up watching the tears roll from als face bc of a memory he has once when he was five living in a hotel w his so call christen dad they has nothing not even a tree. so lill al did was drew a tree on the wall tryn to bring happiness in their messed up lives his father albert hurlburt punch him in mouth so hard he knock out his front teeth. why u ask??????? bc he drew a pic of a x-mas tree on the wall.. u say jenny need help I know as a real christen woman u are the one who needs the help. I'll keep u in my prayers that u get some kind of guidance from jesus himself to lead u to the truth. u seem to have a lot of time on ur hands to talk about [people u have no clue who they are today.. I think ur the one who needs to get ur crayons and draw pic bc from what I read not only are u a non believer of jesus bc if u were u would just pray for urself and then others and the one who needs prayers in their lives in everone. al seem happier than ever other than the fact albert hurlburt. keep him from seeing his kids. I know this is true in my heart and been praying that this family will someday find love on their hearts instead of all this hate.. as a christen woman I know hate is a wasted energy and u my dear Sadie hold alotof hate for people u do not know in stead of hating on them how about being the christen woman u play to be and really get on ur knees and pray to our heavenly father lord jesus Christ for ur sake not for hers. its the holidays lets keep them calm all this gmail drama is the devils work and u seem to fall and dance him alot. so again my unknown sister I keep u and ur family in my prayers so some day u will have better things to say about people u dnt know.
ReplyDeleteALSO THIS IS A VERY PETTY JOKE THATS NOT EVEN FUNNY, BUT ALL OF U SEEM TO THINK IT IS . SO IT MAKES U ALL PETTY. SO ILL MAKE SURE TO PRAY FOR UR PETTINESS AS WELL.. BTW ALL THESE COMMENTS THAT HAVE BEEN ADDED HAVE NOTHING TO DO W THE ORIGINAL BLOG, WITCH BTW WAS ALBERT HURLBURT W HIS SON AT A YOUNG AGE W A GUN POINTED AT THE CAMERA LIKE IT WAS COOL BUT IM SURE IN THE 70S TO ALBERT HURLBURT IT WAS COOL. NOW ITS BROUGHT BK UP IT IS NOT SO COOL IS IT AND IT NOT UR BROTHER IN THE PIC ALBER IT IS U U EVEN STATED IN A RENCENT BLOG HOW THE PIC WAS STOLEN FROM STEVE SO RIGHT THERE SHOWS U ARE GUILTY AND U ARE PLAYING MIND D=GAMES U ARE TO THE DEVIL AND I WILL KEEP U IN MY PRAYERS AS WELL TO REBUKE THE DEVIL OUT OF U. ESPECIALLY IF UR TRYING TO CHANGE UR LIFE. IN GOD WORLD AND IN HIS NAME THERE IS WALWAYS TIME FOR CHANGE.. MAYBE THATS SOMETHING U SHOULD THINK ABOUT WHEN U TALK SO BAD A ABOUT UR OWN BLOOD AND HIS GIRLFRIEND.. TRY PRAYING AND REALLY MEAN WHAT U SAY BC GOD DOES LISTEN AND GOD DOES SERVE W THE RIGH INTENTIONS AND HAS NEW MERCYS EVERYDAY IN OUR FATHERS NAME JESUS CHRIST AMEN....
ReplyDeletesadie baby, all i have to say to u and albert is PROVE IT HOW I AM A LIAR,AND HOW I HAVE BEEN DISCREDITED. LOL
ReplyDeleteJenny Noto,
ReplyDeleteyou say prove it the proof is right down here in the Houston county court house, where you lied to the judge about me. And I prove that you were a liar in court and
you got so mad that you sent little Al, over to my home to slash a tire on my vehicle.
that is also on police record. And I got more evidence against you Jenny and Al, and when you get down here I'm going to get you for perjury. I got plenty of evidence against you and Al. And Steve up there is nothing but a con artist and a thief and a liar. Because he went and stole my whole picture album up there and took a picture out of it and gave it to you Jenny, to put on the internet. Jenny your hand writing is on that picture that don't belong to you or Steve, and you even spell my name wrong on the picture. You just as much at fault as Steve is for stealing the picture. And you both will have to answer for that. Steve why don't you tell them how you con the guy up there that has the bar in Elmira Heights, how you blackmail the guy over the phone to cheat him out of a expensive cube stick. The guy did not want to give it to you, and you threaten the guy and told him that had relation in law enforcement you scared him in giving you that cube stick. it shows Steve that you are up to no good. And Steve yes you did steal my picture album years ago, so you could try to fame me for something that you did. And you are mad because it did not work. and you have no respect for your family, and you talked about your sister Sharon, and you said things about her that was not true at all. You got Artie and Sharon up there so scared they don't dare go out of the house. When Al, come up there 4 years ago, You sent Al down there to beat Artie up right in front of his kids. Sharon should have had him arrested but she so scared of you Steve, she would not do it. You wont do your own dirty work you have to have someone to do it for you. Steve it shows that you are guilty when you had Jenny, to put that picture on this blog. Also years ago you showed that same picture to the law, and it almost got me killed. You see Steve it shows how you
are trying to get me out of the way, You are a very bad person Steve, I couldn't
do to any body what you are trying to do to me. You also told all my relatives
bad things about me that was not true and you did for the soul reason to get
them against me. And you got away with it because I have not been around
in 25 years so I could not protect my self against your lies. You put on a good
act up there but it was nothing but lies. I want my picture album back also that
you stole from me years ago. And you Jenny, you wasn't around all these
years you could have been no more than 2 or 3 at the time. You can't say
that you know me or Steve. All you are Steve's little mouth piece to spread
his lies. as far as your friend Jamie Parm, She don't know me, all she is hearing
is the lies that coming out of your mouth. I would never strike any of my
children. Through the years Al, always had a good Christmas. Jenny,
you got Al so brainwash he would do anything that you tell him to do you
know Jenny, When al, wanted to leave you he call me up to come and
get him when you live on Dean road. You through such a fit, so he stayed.
Remember in Dothan you went out of your mind and he wonted you to
leave and you wouldn't, So he told me to call the police on you because
you was acting so crazy. I should have had the police to come pick you
up but I didn't you are a mental case. If I did Al wouldn't be a slave to
you. had you been evaluated you could have gotten help. When you
come back to Alabama it would be a good idea to get yourself evaluated
mental status. Jenny any one that lies like you has got to be a mental case.
If Al tells the truth he knows you went crazy down here at lest two times.
because he wonted to get away from you. Yes Jenny, you say Al is getting
help; It goes to show you Jenny, you are the reason he needs to get help.
Al, was around me for 39 years and he was doing just fine. And anyone
ReplyDeletewith any common since would know Al being around me for 39 years
and never had any complaints and he never needed any help he had a
good life. So you see Jenny it's not Al, that need the help it is you Jenny
Noto, that needs the mental help. Al, I am sorry I didn't call the police on
Jenny that time when you wanted me to. If I had things would have turn out
different for you. you have made serious allegation about me Jenny, which
is unproven and I say again perjury is a serious offence. Where do you get
off lying to the DHR about me, on the phone and stating that I abused Joe.
And any amateur Lawyer would know hear say is not relevant in court.
So you Al, and Jenny, get on down here and lets settle this in court. Had
you come on down here before I would have proved the liars that you are.
I hope the both of you are ready to take a lie detector test. Then we will see
how smart the both of you are.
wow lol this is so petty al hurlburt and you are right i don't know u and thank god for that.. Al Quick is the one who told me about u hitting him in a hotel with a belt buckle knocked his teeth out as a child w genuine tears falling like a river on memories of his Christmas. If u think those are good Christmas's u are the mental case and u need as many prayers as u can get.. when reading ur last post all u want to do is point a finger on different matters tring to redirdect attention off of u and on jenny and ur son. u must have a time on ur hands to come up w all their wrongs. how about asking Jesus to forgive u for ur wrongs in stead of sitting around for weeks appiling ur self to the max to make ur own blood ur own son to look bad right there is a red flag on what kind of person u are and u cant manipulate my thoughts on u by bring up different things on jenny and ur son trying ur damnest to make them look bad.. lol.. u are the one who looks bad al hurlburt grow up ur acting as if ur in high school and jealous of ur own son get over u self and move on with ur life.. ill sill pray for u have a good night .
ReplyDeleteAl this is a friend of your dad's, Al I help raise you why do you wont to keep bad mouthing your dad. That girl Jenny got your mind so twisted back when I knew you, you had a good mind of your own, and no one could change it. But you would listen to me, I can not believe how you would change that way. Your father is a good person but he did get upset with you when you abandon your kids. But Al
ReplyDeleteyour dad has always treated you right. But if you got anymore to say about your
dad get on this blog and read what Pam Miller had to say about you and Jenny Noto. I don't think you would have left your kids if it had not a been for Jenny Noto.
Well I am not gone a keep preaching at you Al about this, I just hope you get your mind back to where it used to be when I was around you. A real good friend of your
dad's. and you Al. Hope to see you soon!
al,this is your brother steve.i don't know why you continue to bother your son and try to make his life miserable.i remember al as a young boy,and he was so full of life,and im talking about when he was around 6-7 yrs old,this was about the same time that you stole my identity from me,you went out west,and you got a minaster to sign a bank loan to buy a car under my name,the reason I know this is because the finance company contacted me,and wanted me to pay the car off,i told them it was not me who signed for the car.albert you are a thief and a liar.to get back to your son now,you have abused him all of his life,let me explain,you denied him an education,he can barely read or write because of you al.you gave him vallum daily,because when he was younger,he was a little hyper,and you had to medicate him with vallum to make him sleep,because when you al couldn't find a babysitter,you albert would drug him for hours while you left him alone in a motel,or where ever you were at,you turned him into a drug addict,and an alchoholic at a very young age.you should be ashamed of yourself,but your not.you want to blame everything on your son and jenny noto.you also abused jenny noto,you lied to her when you told jenny noto that you was her real dad.jenny noto was just a victim. you promised her if she came down to Alabama to be with you albert she would have a brand new life.the only thing you managed to do when jenny came down there to be with you,and this is really disgusting albert, that you tried to have sexual intercourse with her,and when she told you she didn't want to because you were her dad,you became very upset,also you were infuriated with jenny noto when she would not have oral sex with you,and you began calling her obscene names that would not be appropriate to say on here,and you turned on her like a rattlesnake.all this can be verified by jenny noto herself. and the next statement I will verify myself.you forced your niece Georgia to have sex with you.the reason why I know this is because I was there when it happened,my niece Georgia wich is your niece too her and I were about the same age.we were about 13 or 14 and you were about 25 maybe 26,when you forced yourself apon her,and had sex with her.you were so happy when she got murdered in troy,ny because you knew that she would never beable to testify against you for what you did to her.when I told you she was murdered I will never forget what you said,you said and I quote good the f%%%% bi%%% deserved it.you wanna talk about Pamela miller,lets talk about it. albert do you remember the time you and I were on the phone together wich I tape recorded and still have till this day,i remember you telling me how you sent pam miller over to your sons house and al you had already told me that you had given her some of your medication along with some alchohol,and you knew she was not able to drive that van over to your son,and jennys house that nite,infact albert you know that pam started a fight with jenny noto and then pam ran jennys mailbox down.albert you know that you instigated that trouble between pam and jenny. you know al what your motives were,you wanted complete control over pam,you knew after you sent her over to your sons house all drunk and under the influence of your medication then you made an anonymous phone call to the police and told them Pamela miller was driving drunk.now al,you know why you did this,because you wanted pam to get arrested and go to jail for drunk driving,after she was arrested for driving drunk then you contacted the correctional facility in fl and made them aware that she was driving drunk because you wanted her to lose her job at the correctional facility so you could have full control over her life.
ReplyDeleteal,this is your brother steve.i don't know why you continue to bother your son and try to make his life miserable.i remember al as a young boy,and he was so full of life,and im talking about when he was around 6-7 yrs old,this was about the same time that you stole my identity from me,you went out west,and you got a minaster to sign a bank loan to buy a car under my name,the reason I know this is because the finance company contacted me,and wanted me to pay the car off,i told them it was not me who signed for the car.albert you are a thief and a liar.to get back to your son now,you have abused him all of his life,let me explain,you denied him an education,he can barely read or write because of you al.you gave him vallum daily,because when he was younger,he was a little hyper,and you had to medicate him with vallum to make him sleep,because when you al couldn't find a babysitter,you albert would drug him for hours while you left him alone in a motel,or where ever you were at,you turned him into a drug addict,and an alchoholic at a very young age.you should be ashamed of yourself,but your not.you want to blame everything on your son and jenny noto.you also abused jenny noto,you lied to her when you told jenny noto that you was her real dad.jenny noto was just a victim. you promised her if she came down to Alabama to be with you albert she would have a brand new life.the only thing you managed to do when jenny came down there to be with you,and this is really disgusting albert, that you tried to have sexual intercourse with her,and when she told you she didn't want to because you were her dad,you became very upset,also you were infuriated with jenny noto when she would not have oral sex with you,and you began calling her obscene names that would not be appropriate to say on here,and you turned on her like a rattlesnake.all this can be verified by jenny noto herself. and the next statement I will verify myself.you forced your niece Georgia to have sex with you.the reason why I know this is because I was there when it happened,my niece Georgia wich is your niece too her and I were about the same age.we were about 13 or 14 and you were about 25 maybe 26,when you forced yourself apon her,and had sex with her.you were so happy when she got murdered in troy,ny because you knew that she would never beable to testify against you for what you did to her.when I told you she was murdered I will never forget what you said,you said and I quote good the f%%%% bi%%% deserved it.you wanna talk about Pamela miller,lets talk about it. albert do you remember the time you and I were on the phone together wich I tape recorded and still have till this day,i remember you telling me how you sent pam miller over to your sons house and al you had already told me that you had given her some of your medication along with some alchohol,and you knew she was not able to drive that van over to your son,and jennys house that nite,infact albert you know that pam started a fight with jenny noto and then pam ran jennys mailbox down.albert you know that you instigated that trouble between pam and jenny. you know al what your motives were,you wanted complete control over pam,you knew after you sent her over to your sons house all drunk and under the influence of your medication then you made an anonymous phone call to the police and told them Pamela miller was driving drunk.now al,you know why you did this,because you wanted pam to get arrested and go to jail for drunk driving,after she was arrested for driving drunk then you contacted the correctional facility in fl and made them aware that she was driving drunk because you wanted her to lose her job at the correctional facility so you could have full control over her life.
ReplyDeletethe reason your son and pam could not get along was because you and pam albert were having sex behind your sons back.you couldn't wait to break your son and pam up because your a bitter 73 yr old man and you wanted to rob pam of her youth,and you did.once you got full control of pam you made her hold her head down,and made her keep her eyes closed and told her if she ever looked at another man,she would be beaten.then you took some kind of spray paint and painted all your windows black so no one could see in or out.then you baracaded your trailor with a big fence,you pad locked the fence,and the trailor was padlocked from the outside so when you left they couldn't get out,and you did the same thing when you got home,but only this time you put a padlock on the inside so no one could get out while you were sleeping.albert all this information can be verified,and im going to verify these facts that have just been stated by saying this,if anyone thinks I am making this up all they will have to do is contact one of alberts wives,her name is Doreen lucky or it still may be under the name Doreen hurlburt,he made Doreen hold her head down and if she looked at another man,albert would beat her.he left Doreen in a cold car along with her two kids, nite after nite while he slept in a warm house making out with albert quicks mother,after about a week or so of Doreen and her two children sleeping in a cold car and the kids got sick,doreen went back home to live with her mother.and took albert to court for non support,and because there was a warrant for his arrest albert stole my identity to go on the run,and not face up to his responsibilities to his wife or children to avoid prosecution. while his wife and children were sleeping in a cold car,albert was in a warm house having sex with Sharon bush,then he started doing the same thing to Sharon bush as he did with Doreen,he made her hold her head down so she couldn't look at any other man,and while he would go out to bars albert would lock Sharon up in a garage with a padlock on the outside so she couldn't get out,and this can be verified I am not sure exactly what happened but ms bush took an over dose of alberts medication,i am not sure how she got it.this particular incident took place at my dads house,
ReplyDeletewhile albert had Sharon padlocked in one of the rooms in the apartment.this took place in waverly ny. albert came back to the apartment and found Sharon almost dead,albert would not let anyone call an ambulance until he removed the padlock so no one could see it or know that he had padlocked her in that room.there was no bathroom in that room,albert had given her a bucket to use when she had to go to the bathroom.after albert got the padlock off the door my mom and dad called an ambulance for her,and they was able to save her life.then Sharon became pregnate. albert thought it was not his baby,so he tried to sell the baby to my sister mabel Kelly and he wanted 500.00 and when my sister said she did not have the money,but told him she would take the baby anyway and take good care of it,he refused to do it,instead when Sharon was in labor,he got her in the car and the babys head started to come out,he made Sharon push the babys head back in,she was in the car for over an hour before she got to the hospital by then the baby had brain damage,he made Sharon adopt the baby out at the hospital,and left the baby behind.so there is definitely a pattern that shows people who you are if they only knew the truth. you got away with using my name,and putting me in prison for a crime you commited and you got away with it.i know you did something bad to pam,but the people you are dealing with down there don't know you.but I tell you this albert there will be a judgement day for you,when you face god,who knows what you did,and you will not beable to manipulate god. one more thing albert,your son is receiving counseling for the child abuse you inflicted on him,now albert im sure you remember a woman by the name pat leonard who you married under my name,the reason I know that is because the police showed me the marriage certificate where you were married under my name.to the leonard woman.anyway al,to make a long story short your son has told the authorities how you and the leonard woman when you were having sex with her and your son was 7 or 8 yrs old you would make the leonard woman rape him,and you made her perform oral sex on your son.this has been documented and verified by your own son,by the way al don't be surprised if the authorities knock at your door.
ReplyDeleteall of these 4 comments are from your brother steve,NOT ME!!
ReplyDeleteSteve hurlburt, you're nothing but a liar and a falon, and if anyone has any dout about you being a falon they can check your record. And if anyone got anything
ReplyDeleteto say about me of what you put on this blog, They can get intouch with me at any time and I will let them know the real truth about you. You Steve Hurlburt, Jenny Noto, Albert Quick, Dianne Pridgen, and Carl Todhunter you all right in together on this "Conspiracy" against me. And I am going to repect Pam Miller, wishes about the kids. And as I said before yall come on down here and take a lie detector test and we will see who's lying. As far as Albert Quick, seeing a psychologist He only going to say what you are programming him to say. Steve you been bullying people around all your life and now you are slandering and bullying me on this blog.
The law is going to be doing something about you for bullying me on this blog. As of now I have nothing more to say to you Steve Hurlburt.
I am going to get right to the point,jenny has read her blog to me with all the comments,even the ones you have deleted.all she did was explain what had happened to us,and to warn others,freedom of speech. and yes she is typing this for me because I have some trouble in that area,but I am not stupid I have some disabilities is all.i may have been able to accomplish great things,had you not ruined it for me by keeping me from school,and social lives,and would have kept me in one stable place.instead you made me literally fight your battles,and be on the run with you from the law all over the us,having to change at every place we were at,but it wasn't my choice. all because you couldn't handle yourself,or your responsibilities.all throughout these comments,you are blaming jenny and steve for how I feel.i made the decision to have my kids be with diane,their grandmother. it hurts my heart that pam has passed away,and also my kids will be growing up without their mother,as I did. also it bothers me that you kept me drugged on vallum,and alchohol,and a lot of vitamins that were way over the normal doses all my childhood,and strangely pam had a lot of vallume in her system when she passed.i havnt and still don't want to talk to you,but I am telling you myself,that I don't want you around my kids,or talking to them,and I had told pam the same.you have always been a bad influence,and a manipulator,but I know you.i didn't abandon my kids,you drove me away.you always put me in a situation,like calling the cops on me,when coming to see my kids,after you invited me,and then making up lies,and threatening to shoot me.and when I had my kids at my home,you always interfered,as always.thats why I never had relationships that lasted.you were always argumentative,and drunk,and caused me stress to the point of physical illness,stress is the number one killer,and it was unhealthy for me,and the kids.as far as pam,it is fishy to me,that she suddenly wanted sole custady,wich I gave,then shortly after she has passed away? then a document appears that you get custady if she ever became incapacitated..strange.i know you,and how manipulative you are.i want to know why the windows were painted black,and why an 8ft privacy fence was up with locks on the inside and outside? and don't say it was due to animals,remember I used to live there,and its a quiet,descent park and area.with you its always been about the money.also you have denied abusing woman,well I talked to my mother personally,and I know what you did to her.her advice to me was to get as far away from you as I possibly could.i was there when you were with my stepmother,and I witnessed what you did to her,and what you did to me, the list goes on. but I suppose I am a liar too,right? my life has been better since being away from you. since being away from your twisted ways of thinking,and your paranoia,and your constant thinking that everyone has a conspiracy going on..i have been able to get proper help that I needed.jenny didn't make me,i chose help voluntarily. so stop blaming everyone else for what you have done to me. my children don't need anymore of your influence,in my opinion.i want them to have the life I didn't have,and at this point I feel they are better off with their grandmother,and to continue counseling.it is funny to me that you keep saying that I am being programmed by everyone,considering the only one who ever did that to me was you.you went out of your way to keep me from everyone,and especially ny.i have seen,and heard all the proof I need, to know who,and what you are.and still you hide behind a church,you may manipulate the people around you,but as I said I know you,and you havnt changed,all you've changed is your tactics.
ReplyDeleteWell Al, I will get right to the point you Jenny Noto, And Steve Hurlburt, you all are trying to frame me for things I did not do. All of you need to stop being cowards and come on down here and face me in court. You forgetting what Pam said in her will. and Pam does not lie everything she said in the will is the truth. and everything she said about you Al and Jenny Noto, is also the truth. You all should be ashamed how you treated Pam when she was alive. I sick and tired you talking about Pam she was a real good person. I loved Pam and I am going to keep my promise to her about the kids. I am always going to be there for them. At least I did not abandon Joel and Lara like you did. and you left your kids for Jenny Noto, What kind of man would do that to his own kids? For one thing I never kept you form your kids in any way shape or form. and I never threatened you with a gun. But I got a witness down here in Alabama when you threatened me and held a gun to my head. and you know who it is, that black guy that you got a guitar from him. He witness you doing that to me. And also Steve called me up and told me that you told him that you can come over and shoot me and get away with it by pleading insanity. and you would not have done that if Jenny Noto, had not put you up to it. and also Steve told me that Jenny was trying to get me in trouble by calling out in the western states. and the investigator said that he told Jenny Noto, if she was out there that he would haul her in. And Steve can not denied it. And Al do you remember when you was on the phone with me about cutting my tire and you was telling me about you was having trouble with your heart bulging out there in your chest and I told you that you need to go to the hospital. And I have you AL, Jenny and Steve on tape. I can go on and on. And further more my windows was never painted black and Pam never took any valium. and I can prove what I am saying but I want you to read back on the blog what Pam had to say in her statement. Statement to the Court in Reference to Guardianship of Joel Lee Quick and Lara Alena Quick. File June 27 2013. and that says it all and that is the God honest truth.
ReplyDeleteThe People of The State of New York vs. Steven R. Hurlburt DOB: 08/11/1952
ReplyDeleteSENTENCED: Date of Sentence 01-16-1981
Defendant was sentence to 1 to 3 years with the NYS Department of Corrections.
State Of New York County Court : County Of Chemung File August 31, 1979 Chemung County Clerk. ADJOURNED JULY 1979 TERM INDICTMENT NO. 79-235... The People Of The State Of New York, Plaintiffs, against Steven R. Hurlburt,
Defendant. The Grand Jury Of The County Of Chemung, by this Indictment, accuse
the defendant, Steven R. Hurlburt, of the crime of FORGERY IN FIRST DEGREE, in violation of section 170.15, Subdivision 1 of the Penal Law of the State of New
York, committed as follows: The defendant, in the city of Elmira, County of Chemung and State of New York, on or about the 20th day of September, 1977
with intent to defraud another, falsely completed a written instrument which was or
purported to be an order for the payment of money issued by the United States
Government, to wit: a United States Treasury check, number 83,542,384 payable
to Ruby Wells.
SECOND COUNT:
AND THE GRAND JURY AFORESAID, by this Indictment, further accuse the defendant of the crime of GRAND LARCENY IN THE SECOND DEGREE, in violation of section 155.35 of the Penal Law of the State of New York, committed
as follows: The defendant, in the city of Elmira, County of Chemung and State of
New York , on or about the 20th day of September, 1977 stole certain property
from the Chemung Canal Trust Company, the value of which exceeds the amount
of One Thousand Five Hundred Dollars, to wit: $1,618.43. Dated: August 31, 1979
This is what you did Steven so man up and get over it and quit blaming your brother
for what you did.
Jenny Noto you said prove that you are a liar, So here is the proof.
IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF HOUSTON COUNTY, ALABAMA
NOTO JENNY, Plaintiff, v. Hurlbert Albert Jr. Defendant. Case No.: DR-2009-000766.00 AMENDED ORDER
Hearing was held on 10/13/09, Honorable Allen Mitchell represented the Plaintiff, Defendant appeared Pro Se. After receiving evidence from the Plaintiff and the Defendant the Court finds insufficient evidence to sustain the protection from abuse
petition. Case is hereby dismissed and court costs remitted. Clerk to notify.
DONE this 27th day of October, 2009.
/s M. JOHN STEENSLAND Circuit Judge
You committed purgery in the court of law right in front of the Judge. This prove that you are a liar.
File October 24 2003 Judy Byrd, Clerk Houston Co, AL
ReplyDeleteDeFendant's Full Name And All Allas: Albert Authur Quick (Joel Quick)
Description of Defendant: Date of birth 2-3-70 Height 6'2" weight 200 Race Hispanicand sex Male Color of Hair black Color of eyes brown any other Distinguishing Marks Tattoos on chest of a white Bengal tiger L arm-Panther- Close cut moustache and beard . Defendant Address: South Alabama Flea Market
14974 US. Highway 231 South Midland City, Alabama 36350 (He lives at the Flea Market) Address of Plaintiff: Permanent: Pamela D. Miller Sex f Race white Date of Birth 1-26-70 Height 5'-11" weight 203 color of hair brown color of eyes blue.
Al in case you wondering why I put this on here, This will prove Jenny Noto Broke you and Pam up. Because Jenny Noto told you that Pam put alcohol in the baby bottle. That is not true Pam did no such thing, Jenny told you that so that you will get mad at Pam and you did get mad at Pam and you pick a fight with Pam. That why Pam broke up with you and left. That why she went and took out child support
against you. You say Al you did not have a good life around me that's simply not true. I raise you to be a good productive person, and if anyone got any doubt about it all they got to do is check. You had your own store and business I'll say anyone will say you was making a thousand dollars a week. That why the judge put a high price on your earning because you was making so much. And you should stuck with the store and paid support for your kids. Jenny was so jealous over Pam she made you give the store up. Then you sweet talk Pam to drop the Child support. You had her write letters to make you look good and make her look bad because you thought she was going to take you back for the babies sake. And if that wasn't bad enough you beat her up and through her out of the house in Midland City, Alabama You can't get out of having a store or business you have to have a tax number and business license it"s all a matter of record. You made a bad chose when you pick Jenny Noto over Pam and her children she was good woman God bless her.
this blog was written in truth from witness,but it is now 2017,and i have to say that no matter how long albert quick has been away from his father,it makes no difference,there are no medication,therapy,or anything that will ever help.ultamately he has become worse than his father.he has learned how to act to love and care for people,but unfortunately he cannot love,he can only be around people who suit his needs,and who is weak. it is sad that this kind of life makes people like this,but there is only so much a person can take,so i hope he finds someone,but his true colors always show,and he should probably stop blaming everyone,and maybe take some responsibility for his own actions.if people want to continue to feel sorry for him,meaning albert quick,and continue to feed into it then shame on them. the truth is alot of people have had bad child hoods and abuse usually wouldnt want to become an abuser,although text book says it happens,but after a while,and being 47,and being away from the problem,you would think a person would get better.i dont believe he wants to get better,i think he likes the attention and sympathy.no one has had it as bad as him in his mind,he is never wrong ect..is this his fathers fault? yes at one time,but as an abused child myself,i have to say the building blocks were built,but as an adult and taking my own responsibility for my own life,and letting it go is the best way. just my opinion.sometimes talking and figuring things out is ok,but projecting and blaming everyone will never work out. it is a waste of energy.
ReplyDeleteQuick, Im sorry that your life turned out to be such a shit show. Im sorry that you feel your life would have been better if things had been different. But I remember how it was between you and him, me and you, him and me. I remember the horrible things that happened, not only between us, but him as well. I remember the physical and mental abuse, I also remember leaving with nothing but the clothes on my back, and 2 changes of work clothes. I know that problems are never one sided, nor is only one person to blame for everything. Just remember, everyone makes mistakes, mistreats people at some point in their life, and those mistakes can haunt you and others for years to come. I eventually got over those few years, just sorry that it seems, from this blog, that you were never to overcome the crap start that was your growning up years.
ReplyDeleteTake care of yourself and those that are important to you, Im glad to know your still around, and hopefully happier than when this blog was originally written.